6 Great First Date Questions for Singles

July 13, 2010 on 3:35 pm | In Uncategorized | No Comments

First date jitters? There is no reason to feel nervous about what you can talk about. Try one of these conversation icebreakers!

There you are sitting with your date that you met through a popular online dating site for singles, looking nervous and feeling somewhat awkward because you can’t seem to find a conversation topic to break the ice. There you both sit facing each other across a table at a downtown restaurant, looking nervous and awkward. Single women and men do not let this happen to you on your first date! Everyone knows that first dates can be extremely nerve wracking even for the most experienced singles. First dates can lead to long term relationships or go down in flames. The key to first dates to having a great experience is relaxed conversations, and that can be done with some good first-date questions.

Listen as much or more than you talk. Many people think they are “skilled” communicators because they talk as often and fast as an auctioneer, but the real ability to communicate effectively on a first date is to listen maybe more than you talk, you want equal exchange of communication between you and your date. Quite possibly your first date questions will help you to discover that this person is your soul mate—or possibly not. In either case, it’s exciting to be able to get to know another person and enjoy a fun filled first date. Think of your first date conversation as a tennis match in which you and your date each takes turns to talk, this way each of you get equal opportunity to ask the other some fact finding questions without the other person feeling left unimportant. Happy online dating for singles personals!

Try these for some first date questions:

  1. To this point who has been the most positive influence in your life?
  2. Who is your best friend? What do you like most about that person?
  3. What is your favorite way to spend a weekend?
  4. What’s your favorite vacation place?
  5. What’s your most important goal in life right now?
  6. What do you like the least of the first date process?

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